J Tyler's Story

by J Tyler
(Sacramento, CA)

Hello William,

I have been suffering with chronic prostate problems for over 25 years.... I find the darnedest stuff on the internet here. But, at least some of what you said seemed like it might make some sense. So, I finally decided to give prostate massage a try........ I was more than a bit skeptical and embarrassed when I told my wife what I was thinking of putting where. As always, she was very supportive. Be that as it may, I noticed she couldn't help giggling a little... I sit a lot.... So, I started doing a tad of the prostate exercise too.... It took a little time but this stuff actually seems to work!... I wish someone had told me about this years ago.... and my wife says I seem more cheerful these days. (Not quite sure how to interpret that.) Probably because my prostate has been feeling so much better. That's my two cents for you....

Best Wishes, J Tyler

William's Comment:

Sharing our personal problems with those we love most, especially our sexual ones, can seem like an embarrassing and often humiliating experience. No one wants to feel like they are "less manly" at any time. Much less in front of someone we care about and love.

The fact is: we are all human. And those that really love us only want the best for us. And they care about our needs and sensitivities.

There is nothing BETTER you can do for yourself and your health than let the one you love know about your prostate problem(s). I have never seen a situation where this happened and the spouse/partner did not want to help.

I mean, after all, if your spouse had a significant health issue, wouldn't you want to help her?

Prostate massage is such an amazing and wonderful thing for most prostate problems. And when your spouse assists you here, or even just encourages you in your own endeavor, it is not only healthier for you, but for the strength of your relationship.

You are not alone. There are hundreds of thousands of men with prostate problems. It's just not something we hear a lot about in daily converstion.

I really appreciate all the men like J Tyler who write in and tell their stories so that others may have the courage to change their own life for the better.