A Nurse Helps Her Husband

by Maureen
(Indianapolis, Indiana USA)

My husband has medical issues from a bad back that cause extreme tension and knots in his muscles of his lower back, abdomen, groin/pelvic floor, buttocks,hip abductors, psoas muscle and hamstring group. Massage of all of these muscles has benefitted him and allowed him to live with less pain from his chronic back issues caused by spondylolithesis.

I discovered a knot between his perineum and began to massage this area. I massaged the entire pelvis and groin area. I also massaged his anus. This caused a great deal of relief for him. I then realized part of the knot I was feeling was his prostate and I read about how to perform external prostate massage.

He has on occasion had weaker erections and this was not something he wanted. I began to massage the entire area and then went to prostate massage internally. This created a relaxation in the area he had not known in months. I was able to reach the lower part of his prostate with my index finger but as I massaged I noticed he wanted more and deeper massage as he was raising his legs to allow for deeper penetration much like we females do during intercourse.

I had to use my middle finger to reach higher and that still didn't allow me to get ahold of the gland with the come here motion. He had completely relaxed and had a throbbingly huge erection--something he hadn't had in awhile.

I introduced both my index and middle fingers and was able to feel all areas of his prostate and massage him. He was releasing fluid and it was dripping out of his urethra.I felt contractions in the gland. I continued to massage his prostate as well as went to his penis with my other hand. He had the most incredible orgasm he says he's ever had and it lasted almost 5 minutes.

His erections are returning stronger and his pelvic tightness and pressure are relieved. He is 58 years old and was told the only thing to help him would be spinal fusion, laminectomy and TLIF. He refused this and we have found many other things to relieve the muscle tension including prostate massage.

Being a nurse I am not afraid to do this for him and was able to quickly learn the right techniques.

I understand women are reluctant and so are men to do this but it helps your man more than you can realize and even though this site talks about doing it yourself IF you have a partner like me this can be the ultimate for you and your relationship. I believe this made us much closer as a couple and has improved our communication and sex lives.

Maureen

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Jun 07, 2014
Milking whilst in chastity NEW
by: Anonymous

I keep my boy in chastity now after I found out exactly how much he was secretly masturbating. Although he`s been locked up for some time, I realise he will need relief sometime. A cruel side of me really finds the idea of him not experiencing an actual squirting orgasm when he`s allowed relief totally hot! Reading more about prostate milking brings me to believe this may be the answer to my desire. How would I find somebody to show me how to perform it? Are there any Women`s Groups out there giving demos or talks on in?
I`m assuming, as it is performed through his anus, there would be no need to remove his Penis Restraint whilst it was being done. If so, this would be absolutely BRILLIANT! The idea of doing it whilst he`s still locked up would be the icing on the cake. Eleaner

Jun 07, 2014
Milking him whilst he`s kept chaste NEW
by: Mrs Eleaner

I keep my boy in chastity now after I found out exactly how much he was secretly masturbating. Although he`s been locked up for some time, I realise he will need relief sometime. A cruel side of me really finds the idea of him not experiencing an actual squirting orgasm when he`s allowed relief totally hot! Reading more about prostate milking brings me to believe this may be the answer to my desire. How would I find somebody to show me how to perform it? Are there any Women`s Groups out there giving demos or talks on in?
I`m assuming, as it is performed through his anus, there would be no need to remove his Penis Restraint whilst it was being done. If so, this would be absolutely BRILLIANT! The idea of doing it whilst he`s still locked up would be the icing on the cake. Eleaner

May 03, 2014
Cleaning husbands prostate out NEW
by: Courtney's

I have been happily married for over 20 years and I still feel that my husband is over sexed. About 10 years ago I learned from a friend how to milk my husbands prostate. With well lubricated rubber gloves I will massage my husbands prostate. With one hand around his penis and my other on his prostate I will completely milk his prostate dry and after I have done this I will keep on massaging it for a few more minutes. Rest assured after I have done this procedure to him he doesn't want sex for a few days. While it is a easy out for me sometimes I just don't want sex where I will be leaking all day or on my period and I am plugged up with a tampon.

Jan 04, 2014
taking care of husband NEW
by: peyton

I am a happily married female 37 years old. we have a great sex life doing it at least 3 times a week.sometimes but not very often I just don't want to have sex, like on period, sick, or don't want to be leaking the next morning. about 15 years ago a friend of mine told me what do do in a situation like this was to give your husband a prostate massage. some women may do it a little different, but this is what I do. my husband will lay completely nude on our bed, and I will go to our bathroom and get some latex gloves, tube of k-y jelly,a topwel to put under his rearend, and a warm wash cloth. after I have put the towel under him I will insert a well lubricated finger up his anus to the prostate. after I have massaged his prostate for about 10 minutes I can tell by the feeling of it that he is almost ready to climax I insert a second finger up in him. at this point I will push down on the prostat with both fingers and this will start him to climax. then the next thing I do is put the warm wash cloth around his penis to help to completely milk his prostate empty where there is absolutely no semen left to come out of him. this procedure will make him where he doesn't want sex for at least 3 days. and best of all he is sexually satisified.

Aug 04, 2013
relieving my husband NEW
by: courtney

I am a happily married woman 45 years old. I also give my husband a prostate massage when I am having my period and he wants sex which is quite often. I am quite similar to carol who posted about giving her husband a prostate massage. I have been giving my husband prostate massage for at least 15 years, maybe 2 0r 3 times a month. I do almost the same procedure that carol does, a towel for him to lay on, latex gloves, and a large tube of k-y jelly. I have done this so many times that I can tell when he is getting ready to climax by the feel of his prostate it starts to harden up and that is when I insert another finger in him. after he has a giant climax I still keep on massaging his prostate to make him completely empty it. after this is done my husband wont even think about sex for a few days. all I can say is this procedure works for us.

Jul 21, 2013
the wonderful prostate NEW
by: carol

I am a 30 year old married female and my husband and have a great sex life in fact its to good. he wants sex every night. one day I was talking to a friend of mine who is a reg. nurse and I was complaining to her about my husband wanting sex all of the time. she explaned to me what a prostate massage was and how ir cooled down her husband . so one night when I had started my menstrual period and my husband wanted sex t told him that I had a supprise for him. I went to the bathroom where I got a towel,a tube of k.y. jelly,and some latex gloves. then I told him to lay on his back and spread his legs. then with the gloves on and with plenty of jelly on then I started to massage his prostate . after about 10 minutes I could tell that he was so stimulated and I put a second finger up in him and squeezed very hard on his prostate causing him to have a tremendoud ejaculation and after a minute or so I pressed down again causing him to completely empty his prostate. after this massage he didn't want sex to after my period was over.

Jul 21, 2013
the wonderful prostate NEW
by: carol

I am a 30 year old married female and my husband and have a great sex life in fact its to good. he wants sex every night. one day I was talking to a friend of mine who is a reg. nurse and I was complaining to her about my husband wanting sex all of the time. she explaned to me what a prostate massage was and how ir cooled down her husband . so one night when I had started my menstrual period and my husband wanted sex t told him that I had a supprise for him. I went to the bathroom where I got a towel,a tube of k.y. jelly,and some latex gloves. then I told him to lay on his back and spread his legs. then with the gloves on and with plenty of jelly on then I started to massage his prostate . after about 10 minutes I could tell that he was so stimulated and I put a second finger up in him and squeezed very hard on his prostate causing him to have a tremendoud ejaculation and after a minute or so I pressed down again causing him to completely empty his prostate. after this massage he didn't want sex to after my period was over.

Jan 17, 2012
Help from GF
by: Anonymous

I'm fifty eight with MS and have had several strokes which left me with a lose of hard erections. My gf who I met at a yoga class wag giving massages for my legs, buttock and hip pain. Of course these turned into erotic massages so I would be erect. She finally suggested that she massage my anus and prostate. It took several attempts before I was to relax and let her finger get to my prostate. We tried me getting on all fours while ahe also massaged my balls and penis at the same time.

I finally had a complete hard erection. She massaged my penis while she proceeded to stick her finger up there farther. It did take sometime before I ejaculated, but the orgasm and the amount of sperm I had was incredible. I also stayed erect where we had some great sex.

She has no problem doing this for me, actually likes it. We have both found a new area on each other that really makes our sex life great.

Dec 10, 2011
Where can I find a medical practitioner to do this?
by: Anonymous

If only people where as open-minded as you - including the medical profession - about using modalities like this but don't because they have involve body parts that americans define as private and not to be talked about let alone touched/massaged

I've suffered from pelvic floor pain for over 25 years and have been to specialists ( neurologists, endocrinologists, you name it) including the Mayo Clinic. None of the countless doctors I've seen have recommended any king of internal massage either because they found the idea taboo, too embarrassing to address or worse, because the medical profession doesn't offer such treatment.

All this said, where can I go for an internal massage the likes of which you have performed on your husband without having to resort to the oldest profession?

This is a very serious and debilitating condition that has left me disabled. I need help in the worst way. Any suggestions on where I might seek treatment (no wife, no girlfriend - no much demand for guys in wheelchairs)

Oct 02, 2011
Truly, one of life's simple pleasures
by: Michael

I discovered prostate massage on my own when I was much younger and I can't think of doing without it. I can't think about it without getting an erection. Your husband is so lucky to have you do this to him. You are a wonderful woman. This is the kindest, sexy-ist thing a woman can do for a man.

I have always had the instinct to be penetrated anally. Maybe because of a tendency to prostatitis. I had experimented with different things - dildos and other things. I felt the NEED to do it but I never knew why or what I should be doing. Never heard of "prostate massage" as such.

In my 20's I saw a urologist who gave me a short, forceful internal massage that changed my life although it would time to understand the value of what I had experienced.

I hadn't expected what he did and it wasn't what I would call pleasant but it made an impression. I was amazed at the semen that drained out of me and the sort of pleasurable sensation that lingered. I was too shy to ask him what it was about so I played it cool, paid my co-pay and left. I thought about the experience from time to time but didn't really get it because I didn't understand my anatomy that well yet.

Later I began getting symptoms that over the course of a couple of years became more uncomfortable. I had the "last drop" feeling all the time and a feeling of irritation inside. I started reading about it and was reminded of my experience. I didn't have insurance so couldn't afford someone to do it for me so decided to do it myself, now understanding what the goal was.

So I did it. I started with a vibrator, because I had read that this is what one of the Asians used in his clinic. I had read about the discomfort and intensity so I didn't know how I would like it.

I did as I read - daily for I think more than a week. I hurt a little at the start but then WOW! The pain change to unbelievable PLEASURE. I had found the spot! Like that old movie joke: I laughed. I cried. It changed my life.

The semen just poured out of me and it felt like I was having an orgasm the entire time. No lie I did it for hours, groaning into my pillow. It was unbelievable. It felt life a fire inside me, a pleasant agony. So much better than penile stimulation alone. It FELT like I might come from the massage alone, so I kept trying... til I was sweating. Unfortunately, I am not one of lucky few who can have an orgasm from prostate stimulation alone.

When I finally made myself come it took almost no stroking at all and I really erupted. The small towel I used to soak it up was pretty damp after.

Well I was really transformed and my symptoms went away. Since then I have taught the women I dated to do it. I am married now and it is a regular part of our sex. Honestly can't imagine a relationship with anyone who I couldn't share this with. It is just the other side of the mountain as I'm sure you and husband know.

I have become rather evangelical, mainly telling women I know to try it on their men and see what happens.

Jun 28, 2010
Maureen Helps Her Husband
by: Maureen

Anonymous perhaps if you suggested this to your wife as part of sex play maybe she would do this for you? If the rectum and you are clean there is no reason that one can't do this. Have her wear a glove, either latex,vinyl or nitrile. You won't know if she would do it unless you ask. Perhaps you could also do more for her sexually or in other ways? Try something new with her and then maybe she might be open? Love works in mysterious ways! I am willing to do whatever it takes to help my spouse. It's amazing what this did for him and no longer has that knot in his perineum and his pain is much better.

Jun 28, 2010
Maureen
by: Anonymous

I was amaized to learn how helpful Maureen was to her man. Almost no woman be kindl enough to screw in her index to give him a comfort. I have never asked my wife for doing so, because I know what her response would be so well. I wish I could hve such a woman as my ...
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