A Nurse Helps Her Husband
(Indianapolis, Indiana USA)
My husband has medical issues from a bad back that cause extreme tension and knots in his muscles of his lower back, abdomen, groin/pelvic floor, buttocks,hip abductors, psoas muscle and hamstring group. Massage of all of these muscles has benefitted him and allowed him to live with less pain from his chronic back issues caused by spondylolithesis.
I discovered a knot between his perineum and began to massage this area. I massaged the entire pelvis and groin area. I also massaged his anus. This caused a great deal of relief for him. I then realized part of the knot I was feeling was his prostate and I read about how to perform external prostate massage.
He has on occasion had weaker erections and this was not something he wanted. I began to massage the entire area and then went to prostate massage internally. This created a relaxation in the area he had not known in months. I was able to reach the lower part of his prostate with my index finger but as I massaged I noticed he wanted more and deeper massage as he was raising his legs to allow for deeper penetration much like we females do during intercourse.
I had to use my middle finger to reach higher and that still didn't allow me to get ahold of the gland with the come here motion. He had completely relaxed and had a throbbingly huge erection--something he hadn't had in awhile.
I introduced both my index and middle fingers and was able to feel all areas of his prostate and massage him. He was releasing fluid and it was dripping out of his urethra.I felt contractions in the gland. I continued to massage his prostate as well as went to his penis with my other hand. He had the most incredible orgasm he says he's ever had and it lasted almost 5 minutes.
His erections are returning stronger and his pelvic tightness and pressure are relieved. He is 58 years old and was told the only thing to help him would be spinal fusion, laminectomy and TLIF. He refused this and we have found many other things to relieve the muscle tension including prostate massage.
Being a nurse I am not afraid to do this for him and was able to quickly learn the right techniques.
I understand women are reluctant and so are men to do this but it helps your man more than you can realize and even though this site talks about doing it yourself IF you have a partner like me this can be the ultimate for you and your relationship. I believe this made us much closer as a couple and has improved our communication and sex lives.